A connection-based path to parenting your sweet boy
“I’ve never been in such a beautifully held community.” ~ T
You want to stop yelling and ditch the threats and consequences that aren’t working anyway. But his behaviors have to change.
As a Peacemaker, you will get the strategy, the community, the accountability and the mindset you need to finally succeed.
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If You Are You Feeling Overwhelmed by…
- Your boy’s gigantic meltdowns,
- Or his deafening silence.
- His stubbornness and lack of cooperation.
- Him taking up all the air time in the family at the expense of his siblings and your own relationships,
- Or his retreating to his room.
- Your partner not being on the same parenting page,
- Or even in the same book.
And You Long for…
Peace & calm, and
An understanding of what the heck is going on and how to make it better…
You sound like a great fit for our Peacemaker Community!
I know you’re really struggling. Frustrated and impatient. Letting yourself down each time you lose it with your little guy.
You long to do this parenting thing without burning out, but the frustration is like a fire inside you.
You’re working hard to raise your family, keep the household running, maintain your own identity, and the juggling act has worn you out.
It feels like everything and everyone is getting short changed.
This just isn’t the family life you imagined for yourself, and you feel like you’re to blame.
And what about your boy? Your sweet boy. Who you love dearly.
You’re worried.
- How do you parent him so that he grows into a
respectful man who listens well? - How do you raise your son to be resilient and
successful in the face of life’s promised hard times?
And in the short run, how do you get him to listen? To be respectful? To take “no” for an answer? How do you calm the chaos?
WITHOUT LOSING IT YOURSELF AND FEELING LIKE CRAP AFTER.
I’m here to tell you that there’s lots you can do to stack the deck in his – and your – favor!
I know it doesn’t seem like it should be so hard, but the reality is that having kids changed your life in ways you couldn’t possibly have imagined, and there are very few societies that support parents well.
You are NOT alone!
I’ve learned that no matter where we all are living, we all have the same struggles. It’s been very uniting for me, and inspiring watching other parents and seeing the backstage view of their work.
– Lee
You’re smart. You’re committed. Where did things go wrong? How does everyone else keep it all together? (You know deep down they don’t, but that feeling can kill you, right!)
What if I told you that if you join us inside The Peacemaker Community and use our resource and community well:
- Your boy will thrive
- You will feel confident and proud of your parenting
- You’ll be able to focus your goals on some of those dreams you had before parenthood…
What if…
- Yelling was the occasional slip, rather than the norm?
- Your home was full of silliness and laughter?
- You felt relaxed and happy with your boy, hopeful for his future?
What if…
- For each parenting challenge you faced, several solutions popped into your head, and you actually had the wherewithal to implement them?
- You knew what to do when he refused to get dressed, insisted on a 25th bedtime story, demanded a third bowl of ice cream, hit his brother or sister, called you stupid, or refused to participate in an activity that he begged you to sign him up for?
These things are true for so many Peacemakers, and I created this community so that all these things will be true for you too!
REAL SOLUTIONS FOR REAL CHALLENGES:
I am thankful that I found (you Peacemakers). It was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made.
– S
Explosive Reactions
Defiance & Pushback
Screen Time Battles
Family Dynamics
Respect & Communication
Emotional Regulation
Here’s a peek at what you’ll find inside…
Goodbye Information Overwhelm!
I know you don’t have time to read stacks of books.
Our clearly defined Peaceful Parenting Journey gives you step-by-step guidance in bite-sized bits.
Plus…
- Text Tosha Tuesdays happen monthly, for extra personalized guidance.
Community support
Get your questions answered and leverage the wisdom and support of boy parents like you.
You’ll enjoy…
- Our private virtual community (iOS & Android app) where you can start a discussion, share a win, or just vent
- Weekly coaching calls
- Monthly Momentum Resets
- DADS ONLY monthly call
- Calls recorded in case you can’t make it.
Accountability Groups
Join one of our intimate weekly Growth Groups at a time that suits your schedule.
Led by a fellow Peacemaker, you’ll be guided to set tiny weekly goals and get support in achieving them.
Start building habits that transform your family!
Healing Partnerships
Attend our weekly Peacemakers Listen video calls where you’ll hone your listening skills and learn to let go of your triggers, so you can show up for your family as the peaceful parent you’ve longed to be.
Guest Experts
Frequently, we welcome a special guest live to share their expertise. The complete library of over 100 past guests is available for you to watch at your convenience.
Topics have included:
- Cultivating co-regulation with your child
- Tackling tech & aggression
- Regulating our own anxiety
- Setting your boy up for success in school
Discounted 1:1 coaching
Sometime we hit a bump and need extra support.
Personalized coaching is available to community members at a discounted price.
Available as single sessions or in bundles of three, these flexible sessions can be used whenever you need them.
These exclusive offers are only accessible to community members and must be redeemed during your active membership.
In order to lose it less and discipline successfully without punishment, you need:
- A robust self-care practice
- Consistent positive connection with your boy
- A toolbox filled with strategies to implement when those challenging parenting moments arise
- Laser-sharp coaching
AND
- Community to cheer you on and keep you accountable.
We’ve got you covered!
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Transforming Challenges into Opportunities: Join The Peacemaker Community
As a parent of a young boy, you may often feel overwhelmed, concerned, and even lost in the chaotic journey of parenting. I’m here to tell you: you’re not alone.
I am Tosha, a passionate advocate for boys and their families, and I understand the struggles you face. Like many of you, I was once “that boy’s” mom—caught in the whirlwind of worry, shame, and exhaustion. I worried about my son’s behavior, felt isolated in social situations, and often wished I could enjoy parenting instead of constantly managing chaos.
But here’s the truth: beneath those challenging behaviors lies a sweet boy deserving of our patience and understanding.
With the right tools and support, transformative change is possible—not just for your boy but for you as well.
Is the Peacemaker Community for You?
Yes, if you want to:
- Stop yelling and find a calmer approach to parenting.
- Gain insights into your boy’s behavior and what’s behind it.
- Move beyond punishment and discover effective, compassionate strategies.
- Connect with fellow parents who get it—sharing victories, challenges, and practical advice.
- Reclaim your joy in parenting and prioritize your own needs.
But it’s not for you if you:
- Expect quick fixes without commitment or effort.
- Struggle to be honest about your parenting realities.
- Find it hard to keep negativity or unsolicited advice out of your interactions.
Whatever your current struggles may be, know that together we can find effective pathways to address them. I’ve spent over two decades helping parents, just like you, seek connection and foster a healthy relationship with their sons.
Connecting, learning, and engaging in our supportive community can bring light back into your parenting journey. You’ll have access to tools designed for practical action because we understand that results are what you need right now.
Join us! Let’s make this journey smoother, more enjoyable, and full of support. Whether it’s getting your questions answered or keeping your mindset positive, the Peacemaker Community is here for you. Your boy deserves it—and so do you!
It has literally changed life drastically (for the better, of course) for me and my family.
– H
FAQ’s
Why boys? What if I have a girl?
I’ve tried lots of different peaceful-parenting techniques and nothing has worked. What makes The Peacemaker Community different?
My boy is getting older, is it too late?
Will I get coaching directly from Tosha?
Yes! Each month, on Text Tosha Tuesday, you can ask Tosha your parenting questions. You will also have weekly group coaching opportunities with Tosha, and can always tag her in the community forum. Additionally, you will find a wealth of experience in other Peacemakers who will help you out. If you want 1:1 coaching with Tosha, you can purchase discounted coaching available to community members only.
I’m already so busy. How much time do I need to put in to see change?
We recommend an hour a week. As with everything, the more you put in, the more you get out. And everyone’s goals are different. What we can assure you is that if you take even one tiny step forward each week, you will start to see change. You can do this!
How much does The Peacemaker Community cost?
Your most flexible option is $97/month. The best deal is the quarterly option at $197/quarter. That’s about the cost of one therapy appointment for a full three months of resources and support! You can cancel anytime with 7 days notice. No refunds issued after payments are processed.