You want to stop yelling and ditch the threats and consequences that aren’t working anyway. But his behaviors have to change.
As a Peacemaker, you will get the strategy, the community, the accountability and the mindset you need to finally succeed.
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Overwhelmed by…
His stubbornness and lack of cooperation?
Him taking up all the air time in the family at the expense of his siblings and your own relationships?
Your partner not being on the same parenting page?
Or even in the same book?
Wishing for…
An understanding of what the heck is going on and how to make it better?
You sound like a great fit for our Peacemaker Community!
You long to do this parenting thing without burning out, but the frustration is like a fire inside you.
You’re working hard to raise your family, keep the household running, maintain your own identity, and the juggling act has worn you out.
It feels like everything and everyone is getting short changed.
This just isn’t the family life you imagined for yourself, and you feel like you’re to blame.
And what about your boy? Your sweet boy. Who you love dearly.
You’re worried.
How do you parent him so that he grows into a respectful man who listens well?
How do you raise your son to be resilient and successful in the face of life’s promised hard times?
And in the short run, how do you get him to listen? To be respectful? To take “no” for an answer? How do you calm the chaos?
WITHOUT LOSING IT YOURSELF AND FEELING LIKE CRAP AFTER.
I’m here to tell you that there’s lots you can do to stack the deck in his – and your – favor!
I know it doesn’t seem like it should be so hard, but the reality is that having kids changed your life in ways you couldn’t possibly have imagined, and there are very few societies that support parents well.
You are NOT alone!
– Lee
You’re smart. You’re committed. Where did things go wrong? How does everyone else keep it all together? (You know deep down they don’t, but that feeling can kill you, right!)
What if I told you that if you join us inside The Peacemaker Community and use our resource and community well:
- Your boy will thrive
- You will feel confident and proud of your parenting
- You’ll be able to focus your goals on some of those dreams you had before parenthood…
What if…
- Yelling was the occasional slip, rather than the norm?
- Your home was full of silliness and laughter?
- You felt relaxed and happy with your boy, hopeful for his future?
What if…
- For each parenting challenge you faced, several solutions popped into your head, and you actually had the wherewithal to implement them?
- You knew what to do when he refused to get dressed, insisted on a 25th bedtime story, demanded a third bowl of ice cream, hit his brother or sister, called you stupid, or refused to participate in an activity that he begged you to sign him up for?
These things are true for so many Peacemakers, and I created this community so that all these things will be true for you too!
Here’s a peek at what you’ll find inside…
Information, but not too much
I know you don’t have time to read stacks of books. Instead, how about a searchable learning hub with resources to carry you step-by-step along a clearly defined Peaceful Parenting Journey?
Community support
Stay in close touch with other parents with similar goals. Join us every week live on Zoom for our Peacemakers Connect, where you will get all your parenting questions answered. ONCE A MONTH THE CONNECT IS FOR DADS ONLY. Sessions are recorded, so no worries if you can’t make it live.
Connect through our own private, moderated Facebook group, where you’ll find a safe space to ask questions, vent when you’re having a hard moment, and share wins. We foster a feeling of acceptance and hopefulness. You will never be judged. There will be no critical comments allowed. Period.
Growth Group accountability
Join a weekly Growth Group, a small group led by a fellow Peacemaker, where you will set tiny weekly goals and get support in achieving them. Over time, this will lead to huge meaningful change in your family!
Healing
Every week meet live on Zoom for our Peacemakers Listen, where you will use the practice of Listening Partnerships to let go of your triggers, so you will show up more and more often as the peaceful parent you’ve longed to be. ONCE A MONTH IS FOR DADS ONLY. Sessions are recorded (except for the dads ones), so no worries if you can’t make it live.
Guest experts
Each month we welcome a special guest live to share their expertise. The complete library of past guests are available for you to watch over and over. Topics have included: Cultivating co-regulation with your child, The biology behind the behavior, and Setting your boy up for success in school?
Discounted 1:1 coaching
Available in bundles of three hours to be used when you need them. Only available to members.
In order to lose it less and successfully discipline without punishment, you need:
- A robust self-care practice
- Consistent positive connection with your boy
- A toolbox filled with strategies to implement when those challenging parenting moments arise
- Laser-sharp coaching
AND
- Community to cheer you on and keep you accountable.
We’ve got you covered!
Membership Details
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The Peacemaker Community is for parents of young boys (2ish-10ish).
It’s for you if:
- Want to stop yelling & lose it less
- Are worried about your boy
- Are done with punishing and bribing, but don’t know what else to try
- Know what you need to do, but just can’t do it
- Love your boy to death, but are struggling to enjoy him
- Feel alone and want real community
- Appreciate theory, but really need practical solutions – like yesterday!
- Have let your own needs slide because all your energy is going towards damage control
- Are generally overwhelmed and not having much fun parenting
But you also
- Believe that change is possible, even though it might not feel that way
- Are committed to working hard to get the results you want
- Are willing to experiment with new strategies, even though some may be outside your comfort zone
- Are brave, forward thinking, and ready to smile and laugh again!
The community is NOT for you if:
- You’re looking for a magic pill (I haven’t found one yet!)
- You’re not willing to be honest about your parenting life
- You’re judgey or can’t stop yourself from giving others unsolicited advice
FAQ’s
Why boys? What if I have a girl?
I’ve tried lots of different peaceful-parenting techniques and nothing has worked. What makes The Peacemaker Community different?
My boy is getting older, is it too late?
Will I get coaching directly from Tosha?
I’m already so busy. How much time do I need to put in to see change?
How much does The Peacemaker Community cost?
We are ready to welcome you in with open arms!
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